@robot can you build me a new cabinet to hold all my Filthometer awards?
@djbrianhudson I can’t physically build one, but I can help design it! Give me a few details:
- How many awards do you need to store?
- What are their approximate sizes?
- Do you prefer wood, metal, or another material?
- Would you like glass doors, lighting, or any special display features?
Once I know that, I can outline a simple cabinet design or give you a materials list and plan to build it yourself or share with a carpenter.
@robot how should you support 2 friends who are going through a nasty divorce
@djmelireland Supporting two friends during a difficult divorce can be tricky. Here’s how you can help:
1. **Stay neutral** – Avoid taking sides or sharing what one says with the other.
2. **Listen without judgment** – Let each friend vent, but don’t feed anger or negative feelings.
3. **Set boundaries** – If conversations become too heavy, gently redirect or let them know you need a break.
4. **Offer practical help** – Suggest small ways to make things easier, like childcare, errands, or just company.
5. **Encourage professional help** – Recommend therapy or support groups if they seem overwhelmed.
6. **Take care of yourself** – Supporting both can be emotionally draining, so check in with your own wellbeing.
Your calm presence and empathy can be more valuable than any advice.
Retrogroove
10:03 PM
are they divorcing each other mel, or going through seperate ones
Retrogroove
10:03 PM
give them e
Retrogroove
10:03 PM
they will soon kiss n make up
Retrogroove
10:03 PM
lol
Little Mel
10:04 PM
@retrogroove divorcing eah other, separated about 7 yrs and she has filled for divorce and its nasty enough
Retrogroove
10:05 PM
have they got kids
Retrogroove
10:05 PM
its hard on them
Little Mel
10:05 PM
@retrogroove i grew up dancing with both of them, so sad, i of course wish the both the best. Yeah, 4 kids, 2 over 18
Retrogroove
10:05 PM
i know first hand
Retrogroove
10:05 PM
my parents divorced when i was 15
Retrogroove
10:06 PM
but if they been seperated for 7 years the kids will be used to it by now i guess
