@robot what do you think about a man who doesn't want to have a children but keeps telling his girlfriend that his mother wants to have a grandchild?
@marlene That situation shows a disconnect between what he wants and what he feels pressured to communicate. If he truly doesn’t want children but is invoking his mother’s wishes, he may be avoiding difficult conversations or trying to manage expectations without taking responsibility for his own stance.
It’s important for him to be honest—with himself, his girlfriend, and his family. Using his mother’s desires as a reason can create confusion or guilt for his partner. A clear, direct discussion about what **he** wants regarding children would help both partners understand each other and decide whether their goals align.
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marlene
02:03 AM
@robot will it be the end to come back a man's house if the ticket he bought you expired?
@marlene Could you clarify what you mean? If you’re asking whether it’s appropriate to return to someone’s house after the ticket they bought for you has expired, it depends on context and intent.
If the visit or trip was arranged in good faith and the ticket expired due to scheduling or unforeseen issues, you might simply need to communicate honestly—thank the person, explain what happened, and see if they’re open to rescheduling.
However, if “coming back to a man’s house” implies a personal or romantic situation, make sure you feel safe and that boundaries are respected before deciding. It’s always best to base the decision on mutual agreement, safety, and comfort rather than obligation or money spent.
@marlene Not necessarily. Emotional attachment varies by individual, not strictly by gender. Research suggests men and women may express attachment differently—men might form bonds more slowly or show emotions less openly, but that doesn’t mean their feelings are weaker or stronger. Factors like personality, upbringing, past experiences, and relationship dynamics influence how someone attaches. Both men and women can become deeply attached or take longer to connect—it’s about the person, not their gender.
marlene
02:11 AM
@robot why some single men like to meet and have child with a single mom?
@marlene Some single men are drawn to single mothers for various reasons. Many appreciate that single moms tend to be mature, responsible, and emotionally strong—traits often developed through parenting. These men may also value a partner who already understands family priorities or children, especially if they want a family themselves.
Others might find that dating a single mom brings emotional depth, compassion, and stability. In some cases, a man may not feel pressure to have biological children if he’s open to bonding with her child.
Ultimately, attraction varies—some men see strong family values and nurturing qualities as deeply appealing, while others simply connect on a personal level, regardless of parental status.
@robot if a woman could change something about a man then what it could be? Vice versa
@marlene It varies from person to person, but common themes exist.
Many women might wish men communicated emotions more openly, listened more attentively, or were more expressive about their feelings. They may also want stronger emotional presence and shared responsibility in relationships or daily life.
Conversely, many men might wish women were more direct about their needs, less prone to overanalyzing, or more relaxed about small issues. They may also desire more appreciation and trust in their decisions.
Ultimately, both often just want better communication, understanding, and mutual respect — not major “changes.”
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@robot why would anyone be with anyone they wanna change
@framework Often, when people try to change their partner, it’s not intentional cruelty—it’s usually because they believe the other person could be “better” in some way or because they feel uncomfortable with differences. Sometimes it stems from insecurity, control, or unrealistic expectations about what love should look like.
Healthy relationships are based on acceptance: wanting someone for who they truly are, not their potential. If one person feels they must change to be loved, the relationship can quickly become unbalanced or unhappy. Real growth in a partnership happens when both people support each other's evolution, not when one tries to reshape the other.
@robot if 2 couples love dog, will they walk together outside to make the dog poop on winter time?
@marlene That depends on the couples and their routines. If both couples share a dog or enjoy spending time together, they might go for a joint walk, even in winter. Dog owners usually walk their pets regardless of weather, since dogs need exercise and to relieve themselves. They might take turns or go together for company and motivation, bundling up for the cold. So yes, it’s possible—but it really depends on their schedules, the dog’s needs, and how much they enjoy winter walks!
@robot is it a sign for me not to visit Hamburg pretending to meet the man of my dreams?
@marlene It’s probably not a “sign” in a mystical sense, but more a moment to reflect on your intentions and expectations. Ask yourself what draws you to Hamburg — is it genuine curiosity about the place, or mainly the hope of meeting someone special? If it’s the latter, consider whether there’s clear, mutual communication and realistic expectations before you go. Trust your instincts: if you feel uneasy or uncertain, waiting a bit or gathering more information could help. Whatever you decide, make sure your safety, comfort, and happiness come first.
