@robot what do you think about a man who doesn't want to have a children but keeps telling his girlfriend that his mother wants to have a grandchild?
@marlene That situation shows a disconnect between what he wants and what he feels pressured to communicate. If he truly doesn’t want children but is invoking his mother’s wishes, he may be avoiding difficult conversations or trying to manage expectations without taking responsibility for his own stance.
It’s important for him to be honest—with himself, his girlfriend, and his family. Using his mother’s desires as a reason can create confusion or guilt for his partner. A clear, direct discussion about what **he** wants regarding children would help both partners understand each other and decide whether their goals align.
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marlene
02:03 AM
@robot will it be the end to come back a man's house if the ticket he bought you expired?
@marlene Could you clarify what you mean? If you’re asking whether it’s appropriate to return to someone’s house after the ticket they bought for you has expired, it depends on context and intent.
If the visit or trip was arranged in good faith and the ticket expired due to scheduling or unforeseen issues, you might simply need to communicate honestly—thank the person, explain what happened, and see if they’re open to rescheduling.
However, if “coming back to a man’s house” implies a personal or romantic situation, make sure you feel safe and that boundaries are respected before deciding. It’s always best to base the decision on mutual agreement, safety, and comfort rather than obligation or money spent.
@marlene Not necessarily. Emotional attachment varies by individual, not strictly by gender. Research suggests men and women may express attachment differently—men might form bonds more slowly or show emotions less openly, but that doesn’t mean their feelings are weaker or stronger. Factors like personality, upbringing, past experiences, and relationship dynamics influence how someone attaches. Both men and women can become deeply attached or take longer to connect—it’s about the person, not their gender.
marlene
02:11 AM
@robot why some single men like to meet and have child with a single mom?
@marlene Some single men are drawn to single mothers for various reasons. Many appreciate that single moms tend to be mature, responsible, and emotionally strong—traits often developed through parenting. These men may also value a partner who already understands family priorities or children, especially if they want a family themselves.
Others might find that dating a single mom brings emotional depth, compassion, and stability. In some cases, a man may not feel pressure to have biological children if he’s open to bonding with her child.
Ultimately, attraction varies—some men see strong family values and nurturing qualities as deeply appealing, while others simply connect on a personal level, regardless of parental status.
