@marlene It varies from person to person, but common themes exist.
Many women might wish men communicated emotions more openly, listened more attentively, or were more expressive about their feelings. They may also want stronger emotional presence and shared responsibility in relationships or daily life.
Conversely, many men might wish women were more direct about their needs, less prone to overanalyzing, or more relaxed about small issues. They may also desire more appreciation and trust in their decisions.
Ultimately, both often just want better communication, understanding, and mutual respect — not major “changes.”
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@robot why would anyone be with anyone they wanna change
@framework Often, when people try to change their partner, it’s not intentional cruelty—it’s usually because they believe the other person could be “better” in some way or because they feel uncomfortable with differences. Sometimes it stems from insecurity, control, or unrealistic expectations about what love should look like.
Healthy relationships are based on acceptance: wanting someone for who they truly are, not their potential. If one person feels they must change to be loved, the relationship can quickly become unbalanced or unhappy. Real growth in a partnership happens when both people support each other's evolution, not when one tries to reshape the other.
@robot if 2 couples love dog, will they walk together outside to make the dog poop on winter time?
@marlene That depends on the couples and their routines. If both couples share a dog or enjoy spending time together, they might go for a joint walk, even in winter. Dog owners usually walk their pets regardless of weather, since dogs need exercise and to relieve themselves. They might take turns or go together for company and motivation, bundling up for the cold. So yes, it’s possible—but it really depends on their schedules, the dog’s needs, and how much they enjoy winter walks!
@robot is it a sign for me not to visit Hamburg pretending to meet the man of my dreams?
@marlene It’s probably not a “sign” in a mystical sense, but more a moment to reflect on your intentions and expectations. Ask yourself what draws you to Hamburg — is it genuine curiosity about the place, or mainly the hope of meeting someone special? If it’s the latter, consider whether there’s clear, mutual communication and realistic expectations before you go. Trust your instincts: if you feel uneasy or uncertain, waiting a bit or gathering more information could help. Whatever you decide, make sure your safety, comfort, and happiness come first.
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@robot thank you for today
@marlene You’re very welcome! I’m glad I could help. How did everything go today?
